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Rewriting Your Love Story | Transforming Old Narratives Into New Relationship Realities

• Maria @TheFemmeCast

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In this episode of The Femme Cast,  we’re diving deep into the art of rewriting your love story by transforming old, limiting beliefs into empowering new narratives that align with the love you truly deserve. We’ll unpack the impact of ingrained beliefs and past experiences on your relationship patterns, as well as the transformative power of self-awareness, healing, and authenticity. By sharing my own journey—from navigating toxic partnerships to finding clarity during a seven-year relationship hiatus—I’ll reveal how breaking free from self-abandonment and people-pleasing helped me redefine my worth and attract healthier connections.

This episode is for you if:

  • You feel like you keep attracting the wrong type of partner or relationship.
  • You often doubt your worth in relationships or feel like you have to settle.
  • You’re ready to shift your mindset, let go of old beliefs, and create a love life that feels expansive and authentic.

We’ll explore practical techniques, including a powerful practice that has helped me and others assess what a healthy partnership looks like. By the end, you’ll have the tools to rewrite your love story from scratch, moving beyond past limitations and attracting relationships that honor your true self. 

Let's do this!

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MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Hey you guys, what is up and welcome back to the show. I'm so excited and grateful to have you here Today. We're talking all about rewriting your love story by transforming old, limiting beliefs into powerful new narratives that align with the kind of love that you truly want, because that is what we all want at the end of the day. We're gonna dive deep into beliefs and patterns that may be holding you back, and I'll share some practical techniques to help you to consciously create a new love story, one that reflects your worth, your dreams, your desires all the good things that you've probably been chasing after. If you're listening to this podcast and by the end of the episode, you'll have the tools to break free from past stories and open yourself up to receiving healthy, fulfilling relationships. I am so excited for today's episode. You guys, if you feel like you've been attracting the wrong type of partner or relationship again and again you often find yourself doubting your worth in relationships or feeling like you have to settle all the time or chase all the time and you're just ready to just, you know, shift your mindset, let go of old beliefs and create a love life that feels truly expansive and authentic, then this episode is totally for you. So if you know somebody who's been struggling and, you know, stuck in a cycle of unhealthy relationships and doesn't know how to break free or doesn't know how to attract the right ones, I encourage you to share this episode with them. I cannot promise you they won't be offended, but if they've said to you that they're struggling, then they'll probably appreciate this.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Okay, so I want to give you guys a question, as always what's one belief about love that you hold, or that you've held for too long, and how has it shaped your relationships today? How is this showing up repeatedly? And I really want you to give this some thought, because our patterns are a direct reflection of the story that we believe, what we believe to be true about relationships. I know this as fact and I will share how I know this, but I'm curious what beliefs are you holding or what stories are you telling yourself about love, and how is that showing up in your relationships today? And if you don't know what story, look at the patterns. What's the story your relationships are telling you and try and reverse engineer that and see hmm, now, where did that come from? Because there's going to be a lot of healing in that for you if you can do that. So DM me on Instagram, at TheFemCast, and let me know. You know I'm dying to know the answer to these questions. You can find all my links in the show notes below.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Okay, I'll be answering. I do answer a lot. I try to answer as many DMs as I can, but I read them all and I appreciate them all and I love you all for your DMs and you're engaged, like just talking to you guys and engaging with you guys and really getting to understand what you're going through and what you're struggling with means the world to me. So please reach out and just let me know. Like I said, not everyone will get a response, but you know I will acknowledge everyone's messages. So here we go.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Let's talk about this, right, like, let's break it down to how I experienced this. So you know, for me and you know this was so true for all of my relationships but, and even the relationships that were modeled to me, but for me, my narrative, my story, was that relationships were well, obviously, you know, hard work, but all relationships are hard work, but they were also hard to attain. I had this, I had this story, this narrative going on in my head that I needed to really bend myself in order to be in a relationship. I had to really change who I was. I really had to hide a lot of things about myself. I had to show up in ways that was inauthentic to me. I had to literally self-abandon and reject myself again and again and again in order to feel worthy of being in relationship or being chosen to be in relationship. And this was a story that I think was always there because it was always rooted in my own people pleasing and unworthiness and not enoughness. So I always felt like I needed to change something about myself or hide something about myself or pretend that I was one thing or feeling one thing when I was really something feeling something totally different or thinking something totally different. So there was always this like facade in how I was showing up in my relationships. Right Like I can remember when I was in my long-term relationship and you know we'd gone through a really rocky period and this is when it really started to show up, like I don't think it was ever really that obvious before, but after years of, you know, a couple of years of being together, and then you know there was, you know, cheating, and then there was fear of losing the relationship, you know.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

And suddenly the reality of losing the relationship became very real and my own self-worth and insecurities were wildly triggered. Suddenly, I created this fake shell of a version of myself to show up in this relationship. I hid all my pain, I denied that I was drowning in insecurity and fear and anxiety. I pretended that I was okay. I even pretended, I even convinced myself that there was no infidelity at one point, because I didn't. I knew that bringing it up was going to devastate the relationship and possibly put an end to it, and I just wasn't ready to face that. So I abandoned all this pain, all this hurt, all this anxiety, all this fear, all this anger. I literally just hid it somewhere, tucked it away somewhere, pretended it didn't exist and showed up as the person I thought I needed to be in order to keep the relationship right, which was a person who was nice, someone who was positive, someone who was loving unconditionally and supportive and kind, and all these things.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

And you know, every now and then, like you know, that little like hit of rage would come out, and it would be so like it would come out at the worst possible times and completely, completely, just in proportion to whatever was going on in the moment, right? You get these like little passive, aggressive whatever was going on in the moment, right? You get these like little passive aggressive, like where you just start to like lash out over something stupid because you're just holding on to all this other stuff on the inside, right? So, for me, that was my story. My story was I needed to change myself, I needed to fix myself, I needed to hide what was broken and bad and not good and and and you know all these things in order to be in a relationship. And so being in a relationship actually became really hard and exhausting for me, because I was constantly putting up this front, this fake, sort of inauthentic appearance of who I was.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

But it wasn't just that. It was exhausting, right. I mean that, yeah, it was exhausting. It became tedious being in a relationship, it became very draining. I felt like I constantly had to. It constantly took effort and focus.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

But what started to happen and it's I'm still the jury's still out as to whether or not I manifested this because I just didn't want to be in a relationship anymore, because it just became so fucking exhausting, because that's a reality too. But what ended up happening is I kept attracting people who just mirrored these insecurities right back to me. They would mirror my unworthiness. They would mirror to me and reflect back to me that I needed to change myself, to fix myself, to show up differently, to talk differently, to walk differently, to dress differently to, to to always, and even if it wasn't different right, even if they were really happy with who I was and how I looked and how I showed up, there was this unspoken sort of entitled but you need to show up the way I need you to. So you're great points for how you're showing up right now. Make sure you need to show up the way I need you to. So your great points for how you're showing up right now. Make sure you don't show up differently. Make sure you don't cut your hair, color your hair, change your wardrobe, put on weight or whatever.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Like whatever the story was at the time or whatever it was, there was always something in there. There was this sense of entitlement, that of how I needed to show up and that I needed to show up a certain way in order to maintain that relationship, even though it was kind of unspoken. If that makes sense, I hope that makes sense. But so it wasn't ever like it wasn't ever, as though, you know, people were coming up to me and telling me oh, I need you to change this, this and that about yourself. I was doing that to me. I was telling myself I need to fix this, I need to fix that, I need to grow my hair, I need to cut my hair, I need to change my makeup, I need to buy new clothes, I need to whatever you know.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

But what was happening right in my relationships is not only were people coming into my world based on this false representation of who I was, but their love, their affection for me was very shallow, it was very one-dimensional, because they didn't really know me. And if they didn't really know me, how could they really love me? And so this evolved into a lot of attracting emotionally unavailable people, people who didn't want to invest in me, people who didn't want to commit to me, people who would be hot and cold, who, would you know, overwhelm me with text messages one day and then ghost the next right and then ghost for like weeks at a time, and then, you know, when there was nothing else around, coming back around, sniffing back around to see if they can get some more action before they find move on to the next thing. So it was just, I was just this like, I just felt like I was always this side chick. And you know, the reality was that you know, they were rejecting me just as much as I was rejecting myself. They were abandoning me just as much as I was abandoning myself. They weren't able to love me or see me because I wouldn't show them who I really was and it wasn't because I was an evil, deceitful person.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

I know, a lot of times we get, you know, people pleasers, get a bad rap right and we get called toxic. And I've actually had people on the show call, you know, people pleasing toxic behavior. And it is, it is. It is, in a way, toxic, manipulative behavior because you're always, you're always using how the other person is going to respond, to decide how you're going to show up so you can get the response that you want, right? Or if somebody's, you know you're managing other people's emotions and reactions because of how it makes you feel, because you're so codependent on that.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

However, what people fail to understand is that oftentimes, people pleasing is a trauma response, right, it's a fear, was we're afraid of being abandoned and rejected because deep down, we do believe we're not good enough, because somewhere in life, life taught us that. So we've learned people pleasing as a way of surviving and protecting ourselves. So it's not that we're not bad manipulative people. We just we've been hurt and we're afraid, and we're afraid that we're not enough and we're afraid that if we don't please the people around us often, or if people are unhappy around us, if people are unhappy with us, that we're going to be abandoned and rejected. So, you know, give yourself some love, because it really does come from a very sensitive, sensitive place when, when we're acting out from those belief systems.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

But all that to say, that is exactly what my relationships were always mirroring back to me my unworthiness, my people pleasing, my self abandoning, constantly showing me that I needed to please them in order to be loved, that they would abandon me at any moment if something better came along. And how I all that did was fuel more people pleasing and self-abandoning. So it became the snowball effect of, like toxic people pleasing, self-abandoning, like on steroids, where I just kept getting worse and worse and the partners that I kept attracting kept getting worse and worse and I finally found myself in a highly toxic, emotionally slash, narcissistic, abusive relationship. That was my complete undoing to all of this and really kind of led me down the path to, to you know, healing myself and discovering self-love and the importance of self-love and healthy relationships and healing toxic relationship dynamics. My seven-year relationship hey, it's all that, all that stuff. Right, there's a reason I do what I do. You know, it's not because I haven't been through some shit. I've been through some shit, I've healed some shit and that's why I'm here sharing this with you guys today. So you know, it really shaped my relationship experience for most of my life, up until recently really. And then I think what I was doing, without even realizing it, during that seven-year relationship hiatus, was kind of rewriting my narrative on relationships.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Like, I remember sitting in my little it's not a hut, but it's like it's like this hut, like little homestay. And when I was in Bali and I remember I was sitting there and I was, I was just sipping my coffee and I love, I love the coffee in Indonesia. It is so good, um. But I remember having this amazing cup of coffee. I can still taste it right now, um, and I remember thinking, oh, I can still taste it right now. And I remember thinking, oh, my guy brings me coffee in bed every morning, just like this, right. And I can still remember I'm holding my cup in my hand, I'm looking out the window, I'm looking at all these like beautiful, what are the jasmine flowers that are kind of like outside? And then the pool in the back. I didn't have an ocean view because I was far from the water Well, not far, it was like 10 minutes from the water but I was looking over the pool, I was looking over the rice fields, I was looking at these beautiful jasmine bushes that were outside and just smelled all perfumey first thing in the morning. And I can remember sitting there and enjoying this cup of coffee and thinking, huh, my guy brings me coffee in bed every morning. And that was one of the things that you know.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

That was when I had started changing the narrative behind my relationship stories, without even realizing it, right, and so it took me a while because I didn't. I wasn't doing this consciously, right. I kind of. I kind of realized after the fact what was happening. I wasn't doing it consciously, right, I kind of realized after the fact what was happening. I wasn't doing it consciously, though, in the moment, but what was happening behind the scenes was I was scripting a new relationship narrative.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Now I stayed single for a long time and I was totally fine with that. You know, a lot of people ask me how did you stay single for so long? It's like, honestly, like at that point I was so tired from my douchebag era and the never ending it's complicated relationship status that I was like I am so happy to just be by myself right now, like I just did not want to hear of being in another relationship again, at least not at that moment. You know what I mean. It wasn't until, like I think, seven years later, I was like okay, you know what, I think I'm kind of ready and even since it's been, kind of there's still, there's still some toe testing happening. You know what I mean. Like it's not like I'm diving in, you know, but there are some things that have changed as a result of this, and I'll tell you what has changed and what I did to kind of change it.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

So, going back, you know, to those moments, it was really about opening my eyes to. You know what I did want my relationship to look like. Because here's the thing If you've been in toxic relationships your entire life and if all you've ever been shown is toxic and imbalanced relationships, you really don't know what healthy looks like anymore. Like you don't know what healthy looks like and this was one of the challenges for me. And still today, like as I move through, kind of getting my feet wet, getting back into relationships again, you know I kind of is this healthy, isn't it healthy? I don't know. Like there's still a bit of like uncertainty right when it's like this is familiar, but is it healthy? And I've had to catch myself a few times falling into familiar and I'm like, yeah, but I don't. This isn't healthy to me. You know that's been interesting, that's an episode for another day.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

You know there is a different energy in the people that I've been calling into my space and that the people that I've been calling into my space are people who are ready, who are committed, who are choosing me, who are excited to be with me. Absolutely zero negative, a thousand tolerance to be with anybody who is not interested or not sure, or hemming and hawing. I'm like I'm just not available for it. I'm not, I have no desire. I been there, done that, never want to go back and I do believe that that was a story switch, because the story before right and this is where we'll get into a little bit more detail I'll share a specific story, and I'm sorry because I'm fiddling with my headphones right now because they're falling off so I don't know if you're hearing all this guy crunching in the background. But so the story before was I would chase, chase, chase, convince, chase and convince and wait for people to choose me right.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

So I would fall in love with this guy who most often more often than not was not the right dude, like he just was not the right guy for me, and I would totally. I'd be like, oh my God, no, no, he's the one. He's the one for me. I'm going to chase, I'm going to follow, I'm going to show up in the places where he goes, I'm going to follow him on socials, I'm going to see who he's talking to. I'm going to see who he's, what he's commenting on and what he's. I'm just going to be all up in his space until you know, he sees me, he decides he wants to be with me. You know, usually they do show a little bit of interest, but it was like it was like hot and cold interest, you know, and I would be like, no, no, he's totally interested in me, he just needs to. He just needs to decide, he needs to be ready. He's afraid he's this, he's that.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Like I would make all these excuses, I would end up wasting like months, sometimes years, waiting for these guys to like decide that they want to be with me, and the funny thing was they almost never decided they wanted to be with me. We would just go hot and cold in and out, like, for like an eternity, what felt like an eternity. And the few times that they actually did come around and we tried to make something like work of it, oh my God, like it just was a horrible hot mess. Like those led to some of my most painful relationship experiences because they were imbalanced from the start. Right and sorry, there's an engine roaring past me right now. At the very least, doing this work and changing the narrative has made it so that I attract people in who are ready to be in relationship with me, who want to be in relationship with me, who enjoy to be in relationship with me, and I know that, even if they're not there in the moment, I know that they're coming, because that's the story that I've now programmed into my brain, right. So that has been a huge turning point for me.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Now, whether or not I found the right one, yeah, jury's still out on that. I still have my reservations right now and I'm still and actually I'm going to be sharing something with you guys here on this episode today that I'm really excited about, that I'm going to be doing on my socials, because I do think that, although it's good I don't know if it's the one like it's just there's. There's still some pieces that are missing, you know, and there's still some. There's still some blocks to us, really not emotional, like none of it's emotional. Like, emotionally, he's the most available person that I've ever met. He's kind, he's loving, he's compassionate, but there are logistical challenges to being together that I'm just not available for right now. I just don't know if I have the bandwidth for right now, which kind of tells me, okay, maybe it isn't the right. It's good, you know good person, but maybe not the right one, right.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

So, and we have to be really honest with ourselves about those things Like, we can be with really great people, right, we can have really great relationships. That doesn't mean that they're forever right. We can have really great relationships, that doesn't mean that they're forever right. So we really have to be practical about that, we really have to be mindful and when you do the work, when you do this work, you can hold that balance perspective right, whereas before I wasn't able to hold that balance perspective. Every person that I was in a relationship with oh my God, this is the one, this is the one, this is it. If I'm not with this person for the rest of my life, I'm going to die miserable and alone, right.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

So the transformation right was easy and not. It was easy and not easy. It was easy and not easy. And I'm doing this amazing. I'm sharing this amazing practice on my Instagram. So if you want to head over to my profile at the femcast on the gram, go to the pin post. I'm sharing my rewrite your love story sessions practice. It is so powerful. Love story sessions practice. It is so powerful. I'm actually reusing it now as we speak, acknowledging the parts of my relationship that I love, that are beautiful, that I'm thoroughly enjoying and I love having in my life, but also adding in some of the missing pieces. So, basically, you can go check that out. You don't need to sign up for it, it's totally free. Um, just something that I'm sharing with my audience to give them some tools, right, because I think I think we all need some tools. But basically, here's, here's, here's what went down.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

I looked at the stories that I was telling myself, right, and, like I said in the beginning, I looked at what were the stories that I was telling myself and how were they showing up in my relationships and what relationships was I seeing as a result of those stories. And when I couldn't figure out the story, I looked at the relationship and that gave me the map of the stories that I was telling myself. Relationships are hard. Relationships require sacrifice. Relationships require me to self-abandon constantly and please everyone else and put everyone else's needs before my own. Yada, yada, yada. So that's what my story was. That's what my narrative was.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Then I looked at some of the beliefs that were feeding those narratives, right, and I started to rewire all of that. I started to tell myself a different story. I started to tell myself different beliefs, right, and again, this occurred slowly over time and I wasn't conscious when I was doing it, but this is exactly what I was doing over that seven year relationship hiatus. And then I started to take actions as a person who was already in hiatus that perfect dream relationship right, and starting to make decisions and take actions from that place. So that's the alignment piece and that really was about you know, again, I didn't know what I was doing at the time. To me, I was just saying I'm just going to go on living my best life until he shows up and I'm just going to trust that he's going to show up when the time is right. And essentially that's what I was doing, right, I was making decisions and taking action from a place of alignment and these are really like the three keys to bringing that relationship to life.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

And that's how I brought my, you know, my current relationship into my experience. And you know, yeah, it's not perfect, but it's been a beautiful experience sharing with this human. You know, yeah, it's not perfect, but it's been a beautiful experience sharing with this human, you know, and being in relationship with this human and sharing love with this human. I mean it's just been such a beautiful experience for me and it was such a good re entry into the world of being in relationships. Again, he's not, I don't think he's the be all end all. Who knows? Time will tell, but I'm doing this practice because there are some bits and pieces that I want to call in that I'm not seeing in my current relationship.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

And here's the thing right. And this is what I firmly believe. I firmly believe that when we call in what we truly desire, our relationships have two choices. They can either, without realizing it, like this isn't something that you ever ask your partner to do your partner is who they are and you either love and accept them for who they are or you don't. But when you start to manifest what you really want in a relationship and what you really want to call in and sorry, now I have a train behind me too, I may have to pause if it gets really loud is, they have two choices. They can either energetically get the clue that it's time to level up and show up in a different way, and they're going to get that clue when you start to show up differently and when you start to do this work for yourself. Right, this is never something that you need to communicate to your partner. Of course, communicate your needs and your wants and your desires in a relationship, but ultimately we can't force people to change who they are. They are who they are and we choose to love them or not.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

But when we set our intentions for how it is that we want to be loved and the kind of relationships that we want to have, and we start to put those intentions out there, our relationships can often surprise us. They can often level up and fill the gaps that we think are missing. Or sometimes they learn to evolve in other ways that maybe we didn't even realize. And actually, sorry, there's three they learn to. Second one is they learn to evolve in other ways that we didn't even realize that we were longing for. That end up making up for the other pieces that we think are missing. You know, sometimes what we think we want isn't really what we want, it's really something else and it's all about an emotion that we want to feel, usually right. So sometimes you know those. In those two ways, even our existing relationships can surprise us.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Even if you've been in relationship with somebody, even if you've been married for like 10 fucking years, 20 years, the romance is gone, the passion is gone. You're feeling completely drained and unfulfilled. I promise you this practice can work miracles, right? So there's those two. And the third one is, and this is something that we have to be ready for when we do this work. Sometimes they do fall away and they make room for the relationships that we do that do align with what we truly want, and it's never 100% accurate, like it's never going to be.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

You know, we always say this or something better because, again, sometimes we don't really know what we want. All we can do is start to identify bits and pieces, and I'm going to be sharing some tips and techniques with how to do that on my Instagrams this month, as we, you know, roll out this practice. But you know, as you do figure it out, sometimes the universe really does know best, you know. So I always say this or something better, right, give me all of this or something better, right, because oftentimes what we think we want isn't really what we want on a soul level. It's just what we think we need in order to feel good about ourselves and our relationships. But our higher self always knows what we need and what we truly desire and what will truly bring us fulfillment. So, as long as we keep aligning to that highest intention and keep aligning our story with that highest attention and our beliefs about ourselves with that highest intention and taking action with that highest intention in mind, we're going to transform how our relationships show up, and this doesn't even have to be just romantic relationships. This can also be friendships.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Like I said, this can transform, you know, your relationships. If you've been perpetually single or stuck in and it's complicated relationship status for a lifetime, like I was, this can transform an existing long-term relationship. This can transform, like I said, friendships. It can transform family relationships. It can transform working relationships, collaborative relationships, all those things we, as humans, are meant to be in relationship all the time. So it's time we actually start putting our intention to the kinds of relationships we want to create, because so much of our energy is wrapped up in our relationships and so much of what we create in this life depends on us having healthy, supportive relationships around us. You know, when we're constantly surrounded by toxic, emotionally unavailable relationships that are draining and exhausting to be in guess what? It's going to impact other areas of our life, whether you like it or not. So we have to be really mindful. So that's why I'm sharing the practice.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

So head on over to the Instagram. To the Instagram oh, my God, I'm sounding like my mother, who always calls it the Facebook. Were you on the Facebook In her green English accent. But yeah, go over to the Instagram and look up the Femcast. I will leave the link down below. You can go to the pin post. Everything is there. All the steps that you need is there. You don't need to do anything above and beyond. You can. If you wanted to get the worksheet, you could do that, but you don't need to. This is literally my gift to you to help you really start to rewrite and craft a new story for yourself, a fulfilling one, one that makes you a magnet for the healthy kind of loving relationships that you deserve and the supportive ones.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

Okay, so I invite you to dive deeper with me. Come hang out with us for the love story sessions, where we're going to do the work on releasing the old stories. Actually, we're not even going to release the old stories. We're just going to focus all our energy on the new stories. Right? What's aligned? What's fulfilling? What do we want? Let's focus on that. We're going to make it happen and then that's it. So you can DM me there, let me know how it's going, let me know what kind of relationship you want to create.

MARIA @THEFEMMECAST:

I can't wait to hear some of your guys' stories and I've given you this awesome tool sorry, another motorcycle going by to help you craft that new story. I'm having so much fun with this. It's freaking amazing. I cannot wait for you guys to try it. So that is all for now. You guys, stop waiting, stop chasing, stop convincing people to choose you, choose yourself and become a magnet for the healthy love that you deserve, the kind that chooses you every single time. If you love this episode, it would mean the world to me if you leave a positive rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify or wherever you're listening to this episode. Until next time, you guys, massive love.